As a woman, there’s nothing better to fell in love with a gentleman. There’s nothing better that being in the presence of a man who relishes in his masculinity in a way that doesn’t involve the obvious chest-pounding and cat-calling, but the confidence reserve of a gentleman. A gentleman knows how to threat him self, the others and most important, he knows how to threat a woman. Just because man is an adult doesn’t mean he is a gentleman. Being a man is a matter of age, but being a gentleman is a matter of choice and effort.
There’s a common misconception that independent women don’t appreciate gentlemen. Strong women actually love men who are thoughtful and chivalrous. Chivalry separates the boys from the men. Chivalry is hunky, sexy, super hot and the best part, is that it turns women on, and transform them into ladies. A chivalrous gentleman is kind and honest, gentle but firm and truthful even when it hurts. Haruki Murakami said – “A gentleman is someone who does not what he wants to do, but what he should do.”
Good example how one gentleman should look like and behave is well known fiction character James Bond. As we all know, James Bond is about as cool as a gentleman can get. Don’t get me wrong, a man should not be secret agent or spy to be a gentleman. A man should maintain similar characteristics like manners, good shape, drink and eat well, dress well, be knowledgeable and so on. Even a not adult can be a gentleman if he share this characteristics. Gentleman is confident and knows the difference between confidence and arrogance. Gentleman should not be rood, violent or to kill people to keep his status. Gentleman’s are like rare gems between men.
There are many reasons why to hang out or date with a gentleman. We at Fun Life will count only 12 reasons why you need to fall in love with a gentleman.
1. A gentleman always walks a woman home
Safety and comfort of the Lady, are always first and foremost priority of a gentleman. After a date, meeting, dinner or some other event, a true gentleman always make sure that his companion gets home safely and thank her for the pleasure of her company.
2. A gentleman is open-minded
A gentleman strives to learn, is open to new ideas, accepts constructive criticism and welcomes failure as a path to growth and self-awareness. He wants to know more about his Lady, more about what she believe and more about how she think and react. He does not argue purely for pleasure of being right. Instead of that he try to put himself in other people’s shoes for the purpose to understand different perspective from his own. In fact more men than women think a gentleman should be supportive of feminism.
3. A gentleman always offers his coat to a lady
True gentleman is brave enough to take off his warm jacket and offer it to a lady when it’s cold. He’ll sacrifice his personal comfort to ensure she feels comfortable.
4. A gentleman never lies to a woman (unless it’s to surprise her)
A gentleman chooses to honor, love, respect, adore and be faithful to his woman. He makes it a point to always stay loyal, faithful and honest to his significant other. A gentleman only lies to a woman if it involves surprising her.
5. A gentleman doesn’t play games
A gentleman never play games with his Lady. He protect her mind body and soul and he will never flirt with any other girl. Whatever nice things he says to a woman, his actions back those words up.
6. A gentleman always offers his seat and opens the door for a Lady
It takes a long time for lady to prepare for a event. Getting out of car can also be hard on high heels she might be wearing. Opening the door for her so she can get out of the car safely without ruin her haircut or nail, is not a sign of weakness toward her, but a gesture of affection. A true gentleman always care about his Lady and will always opens the door for her. In a fool room, he will always offer an available chair to a lady.
7. A gentleman never tells
A true gentleman will never spread rumors about you and your relationship around. A real gent always protects the integrity of both himself and people around him. You can be safe and comfortable with him. He will always keep a secret. especially the one entrusted to him by the woman of his dreams. With other words “what happens in bedroom stays on bedroom” and he will never let you down.
8. A gentleman never judges
Judging a person does not define who they are, but who he is and gentleman knows that. Instead of judging, a real gentleman listen carefully what his lady have to say, will focus on situation will try to understand. With gentleman in your arms, you can have open non judgmental conversation.
9. A gentleman ruins his lover’s lipstick, not her mascara
A gentleman will make woman cry only with tears of joy.
10. A gentleman never hit or insult a woman
A gentleman finds no excuse to hit or insult a woman no matter what. When she is late he finds a way to give her a compliment instead of insulting her. He never play on her insecurities. A real gentleman always finds a way to support his lady.
11. A gentleman always respect a woman
A gentleman demonstrates respect, restraint, and personal responsibility in all his interactions. He is honorable, and values and respects others. Gentleman respect, support and understand woman and her opinion. He might want to get into woman’s bed, but he’s also interested in getting into her head first.
12. A gentleman knows how to dance
Yes real gentleman knows how to dance and every lady likes to be asked to dance. A gentleman is a lifelong learner. He maintains a teachable posture and embraces change for the better. Learning to dance well is not that hard.